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Cindy Ojczyk's avatar

Four varieties of lilacs? Next year I will pitch a tent in your backyard. You have all summer to get the yard ready for a visitor next spring! P.S. We let our creeping Charlie grow until there is a haze of purple mixed with lemon dandelion. So beautiful!

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Yes, Cindy! It does seem like the lilacs have a two-year cycle, though. Last year not so great, this year spectacular. As for the creeping Charlie, I wish I could get it to take over. Right now the patch where it lives is mostly dirt. Imagine that! I can’t even grow weeds.🤣

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Andrea Stoeckel's avatar

Lived in Minnesota for 3 years while in seminary where I learned to STOP apologizing for being in the world

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Andrea! You need to come back and give workshops. Lectures. No, sermons. Seriously, only the latter would get the attention of guilt- ridden Lutherans. 🙏 Thanks for providing hope.

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Mesa Fama's avatar

Beautiful as always, Mary. Alive and full of so much more than words can say.

Thank you for all of it, every word.

So much love to you. 🩵

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Thank you, Mesa! I’m glad you enjoyed this. Love to you, too.💛💕

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Ann Kennedy Smith's avatar

Saving this to savour in my garden swing-seat this afternoon, Mary.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Ann, I’m sure your garden is beautiful. I hope to see pictures! You’re as gifted a photographer as you are a writer. Thank you for sharing your life, along with your stories of exceptional women.

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Ann Kennedy Smith's avatar

Thanks so much, Mary, that's so kind. The garden is looking pretty wild these days (my husband adheres strictly to 'no-mow May' here in the UK) but I'll do my best.

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Linda Thompson's avatar

Heading outside now to deal with ... yard waste.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

I’m sorry. Wishing you strength.

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Khudeeja's avatar

I live for this kind of writing. It is breathtaking and honest and beautiful and somehow simple at the same time. The feast you made for your family sounds lovely! And oh the lilacs!

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Khudeeja, thank you. You are very kind. I’m grateful to the Universe for allowing me to finally make that one good meal for my family. And yes, the lilacs are a blessing. I’m glad you enjoyed this.

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Jesse Boyer's avatar

Your words can make the most mundane of topics interesting, Mary.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Thank you, Jesse.

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DG's avatar

omg. What I've give for a slice/scoop of strawberry-rhubarb crisp right now. It's been years.

Thanks for you lovely writing.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

DG, sometimes I think the rhubarb and lilacs are genuinely the best part of life in Minnesota. Would share if I could! Thank you for your kind comments.

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Jeannie Kanter's avatar

Our first summer in Saint Paul Cafe 128 had pork tenderloin with rhubarb chutney. So wonderful. Thanks for another great read. Please save some chutney for us to take to Texas. See you in a few weeks. And I will see your face tonight.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Jeannie! I miss Cafe128, but not nearly as much as I miss you. I am going to make you chutney AND pork tenderloin. Can’t wait to see your lovely face tonight.❤️🫶🍸

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Jane Mundy's avatar

Love your gardening commentary, especially rhubarb. And thanks for reminding me, time to harvest the stalks and pickle. I had pickled rhubarb with salad greens at a fancy restaurant recently...

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Oh, pickled rhubarb sounds wonderful! Thanks for the suggestion, and the kind words.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Oh, pickled rhubarb sounds wonderful! Thanks for the suggestion, and the kind words.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Oh, pickled rhubarb sounds wonderful! Thanks for the suggestion, and the kind words.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Oh, pickled rhubarb sounds wonderful! Thanks for the suggestion, and the kind words.

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<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

The quotidian that delights, the quotidian that makes us crazy, all told with the gifts of a writer from the heart.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Mary, you are so kind! You are the true writer from the heart. I’m honored. xoxo

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Danny Hoback's avatar

This has been such a nice read. Thank you.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

I’m glad you enjoyed this, Danny. Thank you for your kind words.

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Ann Kennedy Smith's avatar

Thank you, Mary. Such a joy to read this. I feel less awful about the state of my own garden and very grateful that my other half is undaunted by the challenge – so far. But I think the green wilderness may reclaim it (and us) one day. Love to dear little Mini.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

My other half was a devoted gardener. I wish I had his knowledge and commitment. But summer is coming, and I hope to keep chipping away at this.

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Teyani Whitman's avatar

The flow of your days, the forgotten hair cuts, spending hours (when it Should have been moments per the way computers are supposed to help us) attempting to solve how to rid ourselves of yard waste…. I would have been screaming and running in circles around my yard if I had as much trouble as you trying to get answers.. bless you for your tenacity.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Thank you, Teyani! That whole hours-online business is getting worse. Not how I expected to spend my day. Sigh.

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Rona Maynard's avatar

Mary, it’s about time I told you how great your haircut looks in photos and Zooms. And I’d have enjoyed that dinner.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Rona, you are so kind! Seriously, my hair is not playing well with me now. And I’d love to have you over for dinner. I’ve been trying for years to get Minnesota to secede to Canada.

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Rona Maynard's avatar

I am sorry I didn’t know you when we spent a few days in Minneapolis back in 2023. We enjoyed our time there. Sigh.

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Jeffrey Streeter's avatar

Rusted shears to sharpened nkives - that was a lovely transition The meanings seep through your work rather like the maple sneaking through the sidewalk.

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Mary Roblyn's avatar

Thank you, Jeffrey! Wish me luck with my sneaky maples. 😊

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